Life is unpredictable indeed. We can live long or short. We don't know when our lives end. Others will say enjoy your life with your love ones but what if it is the reason why your in pain.
You don't know what the future is. Everyone's opinion can be heard and used in any problem but it is you who will decide which one is better.
Come to think of it, should you choose the result that can make you happy and hurt your love ones or the one that makes everyone happy but it will pain you so much. It a decision that makes you think twice, making all those decision can make us worry that will turn to a desease. We don't know what the result will be, but one thing for sure God knows our future so just go with flow.
Make those earth things as pass by.
We can enjoy our day at the same time feel sad, hurt, vulnerable, angry or powerless.