Christopher didn't grow all at once.
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It happened slowly.
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So slowly that most people wouldn't notice.
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But I did.
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I always did.
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It was in the way he started answering differently.
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Not just nodding.
Not just agreeing.
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Thinking.
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Pausing before he spoke.
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Choosing his own words.
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At first
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it didn't matter.
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Children grow.
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That's normal.
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But this
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this felt different.
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He wasn't just growing.
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He was… separating.
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He spent more time alone.
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Less time waiting for me after school.
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Sometimes, he wouldn't come at all.
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I would find him in his room instead.
Door half-closed.
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Not locked.
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Just enough to create distance.
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"…Christopher."
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He would look up.
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Not immediately.
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Like I had interrupted something.
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"Yes?"
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Polite.
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Always polite.
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But not the same.
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Something was changing.
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And I didn't like it.
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People notice things like this too late.
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They call it independence.
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They say it's healthy.
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Necessary.
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They don't understand what it really is.
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It's distance.
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It's the beginning of losing something.
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I couldn't let that happen.
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Not with him.
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So I adjusted.
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Not obviously.
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There was no need for that.
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Christopher wouldn't respond well to force.
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He never had.
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Instead
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I stayed close.
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Closer than before.
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Sitting beside him when there was space elsewhere.
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Standing near him when he didn't expect it.
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Letting my presence become something constant again.
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Familiar.
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Unavoidable.
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At first, he didn't react.
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Then
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small things.
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A slight shift away.
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A pause.
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A glance.
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He noticed.
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Of course he did.
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But he didn't say anything.
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He never did.
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Sometimes, I would go into his room without knocking.
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There was no reason not to.
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It wasn't locked.
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And he had nothing to hide.
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He would look up from whatever he was doing.
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"…You should knock," he said .
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The words were quiet.
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Careful.
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Not a demand.
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Just
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a suggestion.
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I looked at him for a moment.
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Then smiled.
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"…Why?"
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He hesitated.
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"I just"
he stopped, shaking his head slightly. "It doesn't matter."
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Exactly.
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It didn't.
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I sat down on the edge of his bed.
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Too close.
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I knew that.
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He shifted slightly.
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Not enough to be obvious.
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Just enough.
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"You've been distant," I said.
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"I've just been busy."
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"That's not the same thing."
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He didn't answer.
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I reached out, brushing something invisible from his shoulder.
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A small gesture.
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Harmless.
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That's how it would look.
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But my hand lingered
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just a second longer than necessary.
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His breath caught.
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Barely noticeable.
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I noticed.
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"You're tense again," I said softly.
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"I'm not."
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Too quick.
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I smiled.
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"You are."
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Silence settled between us.
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He wasn't pulling away completely.
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Not yet.
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And that was enough.
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Christopher didn't understand what he was feeling.
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That much was clear.
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Confusion.
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Discomfort.
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Something he couldn't name.
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He would ignore it.
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Push it aside.
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Because that's what he always did.
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Because he trusted me.
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And trust
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makes things easier.
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"I missed you," I said quietly.
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That part wasn't a lie.
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He looked at me then.
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Really looked.
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And for a moment
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he softened.
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"…I'm still here," he said.
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I held his gaze.
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"Yes," I replied.
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A small pause.
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"But not the way you used to be."
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He didn't know how to answer that.
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So he didn't.
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And slowly
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without realizing it
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he stopped trying to create distance.
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Just a little.
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Just enough.
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Because even as he changed
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even as he started to think for himself
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Christopher still came back.
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Still stayed.
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Still trusted.
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And that was all I needed.
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Because no matter how much he grew
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no matter how much he tried to become something else
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I could feel it.
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That connection hadn't broken.
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It had only stretched.
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And things that stretch
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can always be pulled back.
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He was changing.
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That much was certain.
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But that didn't mean he was leaving.
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It just meant
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I had to be more careful.
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More patient.
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More aware.
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Because Christopher wasn't just growing
up
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He was becoming someone who might forget where he belonged.
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And that
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was something I would never allow.