A lot of men are chauvinists. It's fine for them to sleep around, but their wives absolutely cannot cheat. A wife's infidelity gives them a profound sense of failure.
Not only that, but many men claim they don't care if their wife was a virgin, when in reality, they care a great deal.
Don't just say that's how the world is now, because it isn't. When it comes to marriage, the greatest respect a woman can give a man is her chastity. Even if the man has had several ex-girlfriends, most men who marry want to spend the rest of their lives with that woman—provided he actually loves her.
Women who don't respect themselves fantasize about sneaking the forbidden fruit with their young boyfriends. Ninety percent of the time, a woman won't marry the first man she sleeps with.
Jean Grant was the perfect example. While dating Marlon Marshall, she believed he loved her, so she gave him her virginity and was even prepared to marry him over it.
In reality, Marlon Marshall had never loved her.
