They are me is more than a book—it’s a cry from the soul, echoing the silent screams of countless women who endure gender-based violence in the shadows. 
It’s a powerful reflection on pain, resilience, and the fierce courage it takes to say enough. Through raw, moving stories and real-life testimonies, Gina María Paredes Cornejo sheds light on the brutal realities of femicide, emotional abuse, and the relentless fight to end violence against women.
Yet amid the darkness, there is hope.
They are me urges us not only to recognize the signs of abuse but to break free from the chains of silence and shame. It’s a call to raise our voices, to heal, and to reclaim our lives with dignity and strength.
With a special focus on the International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women, this book empowers us to stand together and declare—once and for all—Never Again.
Let this book be your guide, your companion, and your spark for change.

"What shatters me most is when men finally show their true intentions and become the arrogant macho men they really are.


They start as sweet talkers, with gentle smiles and whispered promises of forever.


Suddenly, the man who once held you tenderly has eyes full of contempt. His words become weapons. His hands follow.


I believe domestic violence is the silent war waged behind closed doors. It crushes souls, silences dreams, and leaves scars no one can see.


Love should never come with bruises, threats, or fear.


And yet too many women cling to the hope that the man they fell in love with will return.


But arrogance, control, and cruelty often lurk beneath the surface, waiting for the perfect moment to strike.


I write because I want women to know: you deserve better. You deserve safety, respect, and peace.


And the first step toward freedom is recognizing that love should never hurt."


Chapter 1 - What I Think About Domestic Violence