The Earl was among those who harbored the most significant of such thoughts; he even believed that if he were just an ordinary man, he could stay forever with the loved one and lead a peaceful life without having to sacrifice his wife and son now. Although his son seemed quite promising now, having found a genuine method of cultivation to truly enhance his abilities, it indeed looked like a very good turn of events.
Nevertheless, speaking of which, if Bo Jun were to choose his identity after all, everything would change. But these changes are unavoidable; everyone should accept their fate and strive for it.
Since you already have this identity, you must pay a specific price, the price that comes with that identity, and not to avoid it.