" Let me name both of them so you have a better idea. Let's call the Facebook friend who said he loves me, 'R' and the Instagram friend,' Mit'.
So R said he loves me and I was so happy because it was my first time someone confessing their feelings to me as before I only had one, one sided love. And me being desparate for love which by the way I didn't know at that time, replied saying I love him. And that is how my first auxiliary relationship started..."
" But why is it auxiliary?"
" Let me go further in the story to answer that.
So we were having daily conversations in messages and sometimes call. But he kept mentioning how he loved so much his ex girlfriend and so is unsure if he could love me as much. And so I decided and told him let's not continue this if that is how he feels. We were still in touch and chatted but it was lessened now.
And then there arrived the time where I had to go apply for my college so I and my mother went and were staying at a relative's. And in the meantime I got another friend request from an unknown account on Instagram. Without giving it a much thought I accepted it. And in a few hours he messaged me saying me accepting his friend request is a sign from his family deity goddess and so he wants to persue a relationship with me. He just straight up said that on the same day we just started talking. I told him I don't feel the same way. To which his response was like he can wait and I had no issue with that. And we were now chatting daily first on Instagram then on WhatsApp and after a few days he asked me when will I be ready for the relationship, when will I have feelings for him? And I was like I don't know, nobody knows when they will start loving someone. From here on he kept on asking me this every two-three days which was frustrating and exhausting to me. But I was a major people pleaser which again I had no clue about then, so I didn't do anything about it. Also one day he tells me he accepts me even though he is fair skinned and I am not. And in my head I was like, "what he saying?" But I kept quite as I didn't want to ruin a good friendship. Then one day he tells me he wants me to talk to his mother."