The start of a journey is planned but is always subject to ever changing scenarios.
It's better to have emergency contagies in mind than to just walk in blindly into every scenario. You will be swept up in the current.
You as a person are the one that walked the path and you are the person that is in the moment right now. The path up ahead is still unknown and isn't known for you. So, don't forget to be aware of the current moment to define what kind of person you want to be.
Reality. What is it? The things you see or the things you don't see? Is it science that defines reality? The shared believes of humans? The things we perceive? Is it a simulation or is everything one? The cosmos in its infinite state could be another being that cultivates us in itself and we wouldn't know. So why not live in the way your inner child wanted to live to the core being you are in yourself when we can't really define what reality is. Live towards the cosmos and you feel is good.
No pathos a human being is predestined but the history in itself may so.
Everything is subject to change. So don't be wary of it and embrace it. The river never is in the same riverbed but changes it. The pebbles are getting shaped by the current, even the heaviest mountains wander across continents so why stop yourself and hinder yourself from change when it's in the nature of a being to change.
Even the brightest smiles cannot hide the pain in the eyes.
Everybody is preoccupied by their own life so don't judge harshly when others are rude towards you. What is their story? Ask yourself what the reason could be for their behaviour and you may find yourself thinking you wouldn't act so differently. Keep that in mind and either help that person or let the person be but don't lash out. What good does it do to you? A sense of pride that is as shallow as a puddle of water and is vain? That sense of accomplishment will only harm your state of mind and hinder yourself and make you bitter, stopping yourself to act good in your own way.
What is good? Is it acting for others and leaving yourself behind? Is it acting only in your selfinterest? It's neither.
Take your time to see the nature around you. There is nothing pressuring you to always move into one direction.
Sometimes the best course of action is retreat and not stepping forward. Why advance when you don't even know what you are in the moment and the current of live is sweeping you up? Take a moment to see what kind of state your flow is and what kind of water you carry and think about what kind of water you want to be. Than advance with new energy and a new sense of direction.
Look into a mirror every morning and evening and think about what you want to do and what you did. Be accountable for yourself.