Love is weak, if you are not strong
Love is hard, if you are soft
Love can be miserable if you are sensible
Never say you are giving up everything for love if you are not ready for the consequences. Hearts gets broken, mouth tells lies, eyes decieve and mind curse secretely. Being inlove is beautiful but you are more beautiful, so dont cry just because a guy breaks up with you. Love whosoever you wanna love but love with sense and character, never allow them know when you are crying.life is short so dont waste it as a queen because you might regret it
Rules About Love
• Be prepared mentally, physically, spiritually, emotionally and financially as a girl
• Make sure you are mentally stable before entering anything called ship
• Date someone you are comfortable with and who understands you
• Never say you can change a guy because whosoever wanna change willchange just for you without being to what to do
• Put yourself first no matter what
• Love should never be on your No1 list instead God is first and Money is second
• Always smile and never let them know your next move
• Failing isnt bad but failing continously is worst than bad
• Always have a busy schedule as a girl so that it will distract you from a lot of things
• Never think of making your man proud of you if you cant make yourself proud
• Never allow anyone oppress you
• Dress neatly, sharply and confidently
• Be silent and shock them with your success
Love isn't by force and it isn't forced so as a lady be wise. This book isnt a story, we girls know why we put all our time on Kpop musics, Anime etc, sometimes we are not dreaming but we are just imagining some things and trying to put ourselves there. Kpop musics are like lofe saving instruments to some of us. Some people might say that we are wasting our time and strength on these things but we are not because it's only us that understand all of this
Some of us take BTS in terms of songs, boyfriends materials,while Blackpink in terms of Fashion.
As a girl never leave God because God is your friend, your partner in crime, your lover, your first love, your father/mother, your bestie,your give and your creator.
If a guy cant take care of himself then dont think that he can take cre of you, baby girl don't be decieved
In life you have to make chioces and make sure you choose wisely. Dont be deceived by men sweet words.
So ladies wake up and keep your head up high
Have you ever asked yourself why you are not growing financially or mentally? That's because you waste your time on things that are not worth your time and money, you do unnecessary things that add no meaning to your life and you dont have the right friends to scold or to correct you but instead they tell you that what you are doing is the good thing and they wont also say the consequences, now lets talk about the knod of people we keep around us. Friends comes in different ways, places and sides but it depends on who you choose and how to keep them, there are two kinds of friends:
• Friends with good heart, good intentions, good behaiours and are good advicers who are ready to do anything just for you.
• Friends that are very eviland are decievers, they are very harmful to you and your health but pretend to be your friend as if nothing happened just because they want to ruin your life and nothing more.
Sometimes we dont know who we call our friends because they all put smiles on fheir faces just to decieve you in believing that they are God's sent. As a girl, learn to dress, talk, walk, cook and pray
• As a girl, learn to combine clothes very well no matter where you are, what you do and what you have. The way you dress is the way you would be addressed. Dont over dress, dont rub too much make up, dont dress too flashy and most importantly, dont spray too much perfumes
• Always learn to brush your teeth especially your tongues very well. Form the habit of brushing twice a day, wash your underarms and other sensitive part very well
• Learn the habit of praying to God before doing anything. God comes first and talking to him should be your daily routine and habit no matter what
• Learn to Excersie/ Mediate every morning, it helps in your rexation of mind and body
•Intelligence is not all about passing test or examination but also in the way you talk, reason and think before you open your mouth and spit out rubbosh as a girl
• Dont call yourself a baddie if you dont know how to cook. A real baddie isnt lazy, so work very hard if you just want to be sitting dow and smiling in your lwn house. Dont fight anyhow, dont smoke, dont eat too much and most importantly, be yoursef
• Be contented: if you dont have any or little stuffs, then manage them. Dont try try to get more than your limits, always have a budget, always say thank you to anyone/everyone who gives you something no matter how lottle that stuff is and is not everything you accept from someone or people, sometimes learn the habit of saying no thank you.
Advice to girls
•Stay away from troubles
• Stay away from gossips
• A queen doesn't sgare her throne with anyone so don't make a mistake by sharing your throne or crown to others even though that person is your daughter, sister, of friend
• Don't force anyone to love you no matter who you are
• Always have a timtable
• Dont let anything rule your life or your future
Thank you all for your time and be on the look for part 2, thank you