This is a story of mine from when I went through my last relationship. It turns out that after four years of not falling in love, I fell in love with a beautiful girl, pretty, with a nice body, just how I like; how I think, maybe, every man reading this might like too. And what happened was that I fell in love, I won her over; I think I spent about a month insisting a lot for her to notice me.
It's curious, because I only gave her the chance because I gave myself the chance; I consider myself an attractive guy, with a good body, intelligent, so let's just say I gave myself and her the chance. After four years of not falling in love with anyone, I started winning her over little by little, talking to her on Instagram, messaging her on social media, on WhatsApp, because in the end I asked for her number; then we talked on the phone, by text, I spent a month trying.
And why did I give myself the chance, you might ask? After four years, what motivated you? Well, it turns out she was the sister of a good friend I had since school; imagine, after so many years. And just because of that I gave myself the chance to trust someone again, since in the last relationship, before this one, I had been treated very badly. And I'm talking about a formal relationship, not a fling, not a hookup, not someone casual or short-term; it was a formal relationship. They treated me badly, so I decided to be alone, focused on myself, my sport, my career, etc.
So I gave myself the chance to get to know someone little by little, mostly for the reason I mentioned: she was the sister of a good friend I had. I had, because we're no longer friends; in the end everything ended badly. I'll tell you how it ended, so you can see how life is sometimes, and so, based on my experience, this story might serve you.
What happened was that I spent a month trying. I said, okay, the girl is fine; her older brother was a good person, with values. I thought, the girl must be the same. Well, in the end, spoiler: she was nothing like that.
So we were talking for about a month, saying we'd go out and all; we made plans, but nothing happened.
After a month, I told her: hey, I want to go out with you, I want to have a relationship. Just like that, I went all in; that's how it should be. The girl wrote to me on WhatsApp, because that's where we talked. She told me no, that not right now, that she's focused on other things, but thank you very much because I'm a good person, etc. She expressed herself well; she turned me down in a decent, calm, respectful way, and I accepted it too.
Two weeks later, I was doing my internship, in my career, the last stage already, because I study a health-related career. I also like to tell stories, I always have, and I think my life is full of stories to tell. A lot has happened to me, sad and happy, and well, now this chapter happened to me; even though I consider it a waste of time for me, of course.