Accordingly, Bob got to work.
Firstly, Resonance. This was key. He had to not only understand the other person's energy, or wavelength, but also alter his own frequencies so that their energies would resonate and overlap.
Only then would rapport begin to be built.
At the same time, there was a cost. Inevitably, one's own frequency would naturally be influenced by those that you spent time with, and so, it was important to protect your own resonance in the event that you were encountering negative energies.
And inevitably, this was best used as a test - in order to figure out the calibrative energies of a situation or other person and ultimately, to assess how compatible you might be in that situation or relationship.
Relationships were ultimately about free choice and so, the rule was that regardless of one's own Rizz, you would have to respect the other's Free Agency and Choice - and make no mistake, assessing natural resonance was a large factor in figuring out whether a relationship or connection would be successful or not.
For example, if your own world were fundamentally different, then techniques could only get you so far - the truth was that you could not, nor should you, connect with everyone and anybody - rather, true Rizz was assessing and making the most of the best opportunities and forming connections that would genuinely elevate both parties to become better versions of themselves and to live out their best life!