"Senior Brother, do you have any insights?"
The Senior Brother came back to his senses, seemed to understand something, got up and bowed,
"I ask Junior Brother to enlighten me."
Tang Tong smiled,
"It's not about teaching, it's just some big truths. The methods of cultivation, companionship, resources, and location are nothing but means of refining the heart in the journey of cultivation. The Great Dao is the foundation, beginning and end cannot be reversed, and one must not remain stubborn and uncomprehending. Act naturally and accept circumstances as they come.
Then be a little sweet, write letters occasionally, invite her to go out and play, pay attention to a clean and fresh appearance, don't always be crying and blaming the heavens and everyone around.
Only when the other person feels happy joking with you will they want to see you more. If they find you annoying, there's definitely nothing more to it.
And most importantly, don't get emotionally involved.
