Speaking of which, when Father Qin went to tell Aunt Qin about Qin Fang, Aunt Qin was also stunned. She never thought that one day her eldest nephew would become a general. Even if she and her mother's family are no longer close, there is no contradiction, so her nephew is promising. Of course, her aunt also has face, at least on the side of her husband's family, everyone will look up to her a little bit.
Aunt Qin called Grandma Qin and Mother Qin: "Mother, sister-in-law, you are all here."
Mother Qin responded.
Grandma Qin is a happy person, and everyone is happy when she sees it. "No, how about discussing the day after tomorrow with your sister-in-law. There are so many things that people can't remember them. What about your mother-in-law? You have to entertain them at your mother-in-law's house, so don't treat them badly. "
Aunt Qin said: "Here, I'm chatting with my sister-in-law's maiden family. Seeing that they are happy, everyone wants to share A Fang's joy, and they are not willing to leave."
Grandma Qin said, "It's rare to come here, so you should sit more."
Aunt Qin also smiled, and then looked at Mother Qin, who was full of joy between her eyebrows and eyes. She didn't feel sour, but there was always envy.
In this life, some things can't be compared, but from the sister-in-law, she suddenly understood that her husband is already like this, and he can't do anything anymore, but his son is still young and can teach again. She doesn't expect to teach a general like Qin Fang, the eldest nephew, but it is better to teach well than not to teach. Aunt Qin thought for a while and said, "I'm here to learn from my mother and sister-in-law. How could I teach A Fang's teachings so well?" This is a compliment and a truth.
This made Grandma Qin and Mother Qin laugh. Mother Qin said, "How can I have this ability? A Fang was brought up by his mother since he was a child. You have to ask your mother about it."
Although Grandma Qin usually said that she brought up the eldest grandson, how old can children in the countryside be brought? Didn't he start running around on his own when he was six or seven years old? So Qin Fang can grow up to be like this, but he still strives for himself. However, it is inseparable from her education as a child. Grandma Qin has lived in the country all her life and has no great knowledge.
What she educates her sons and grandchildren most is to be a good person, not to do bad things, not to do things like stealing chickens and dogs, etc. If it was in front of outsiders, she would still be able to brag, but in front of her daughter, she thought about it and said the truth: "This matter is also an opportunity, the opportunity is very important, and you can seize it when you have the opportunity. The more important point is to marry a good daughter-in-law. But with a good daughter-in-law, it is also very important to be motivated. So I thought that if A Fang can have today, it is just two sentences. The daughter-in-law has to make progress."
Qin's mother listened, and also felt that Qin's grandmother's words were very reasonable: "A Fang had no choice but to go to the military to serve in the military. Fortunately, he would seize the opportunity and marry a good wife. Speaking of which, I think marrying The most important thing is to my daughter-in-law."
Aunt Qin said: "No, A Fang's daughter-in-law was given by the imperial court, and what the imperial court gave was given by the emperor. Can what the emperor gave it was bad?"
This is the case, but the court is also blindly referring to marriage. But everyone will say something nice, and the reason for praising the emperor is because Qin Fang and his wife are getting better.
Here, the mother-in-law and aunt-in-law were chatting happily, and a voice sounded outside: "Yueying... Yueying..." Yueying is Qin's mother's boudoir name, and her full name is Ding Yueying.
As soon as Qin's mother heard her name, she knew that it was Han's third aunt who said something to her. Anxiety surged in her heart. Although her Mother loved her, when she was a child, she would be close to her when there was delicious food at home. She was not like other girls who had to work every day since she was a child. However, she didn't know what her Mother would tell her this time.
Mother Qin walked out with a restless mood.
From the outside, Mother Ding was kind old lady. Grandma Qin and Grandma Qin are different types. Grandma Qin is a shrewd and a bit powerful, but a very kind old lady. And Mother Ding gives the impression that she is an old lady who gets along well with her, without the shrewdness of grandma Qin.
"Mother." Mother Qin walked to Mother Ding's side, "Aren't you chatting with everyone? Why are you here? Are you going back?"
These words blocked what Mother Ding originally wanted to say. She believed that her daughter also knew what she was doing here. In fact, before the Qin family developed, she felt that it would be good for Si Ya to have a marriage relationship with Tadpole. Si Ya was her granddaughter, and Tadpole was her grandson. It was better that they were kissed both inside and out. But the third daughter-in-law did not agree at that time, insisting that the tadpoles were still young.
And now, the Qin family is prosperous, and Si Ya's real brother is a general. Although she also hopes that her grandson will be well, she must also recognize the facts. Si Ya is now a lady of the official family, and Tadpole is a child of a poor family. People just don't deserve it. But the third daughter-in-law kept talking, saying that she was upset. Moreover, the third daughter-in-law also said that this matter can be tried, and if the Qin family does not agree, it will be discussed.
She thinks it's okay to try it. But just now the third daughter-in-law came. She said that Qin's mother looked down on her parents' family, so she disliked the poor condition of the tadpoles and let herself speak. She didn't want to come, but the third daughter-in-law persuaded the third child, and the third child was begging and aggrieved to let her come, so she could only come and have a try.
But now, when Mother Ding saw her daughter's expression, she knew what it meant.
Mother Ding smiled and said warmly, "I'm going back later. There are still things at home and farm work. Are you going to Afang the day after tomorrow?"
Seeing that Mother Ding didn't ask about AFang, Mother Qin didn't say anything about it. She focused on Mother Ding business: "No, the second room is responsible for the family's fields. After the crops are harvested, the fields will be rented out., the person who rented it out has already been found. The past few days have been delayed for several days due to the matter of the fields and the running water mat. If he doesn't leave the day after tomorrow, he should be worried about A Fang.
Besides, the people around A Fang have been worrying about it. Here, I can't say it's busy over there."
Mother Ding sighed, her eyes looking at Qin's mother were a little complicated. Her daughter is enjoying her happiness, she is naturally sincere and happy, no one thought that her daughter would still be today. "When you were born, you were such a small one. I was happy when I saw it. In a blink of an eye, you and Tie Niu got married. I saw that the Qin family was good, and the in-laws were reasonable, so I agreed to your proposal. Marriage. Later, you also strived to live up to your expectations. The first child was a son. Ah Fang was a filial man and could replace his daddy in the army, but I thought that a filial child would be rewarded, and he would be able to make it to this day."
Speaking of this, Qin's mother is also happy: "No, he secretly signed up for military service without telling us. When my grandmother and I found out, we almost cried blind. But this child has a big idea, and he was only sixteen years old at that time., why did he have such a big idea, why did he sign up we still feel distressed. Our family is helpless, it doesn't matter, he is leaving It's not easy to this day.
So, whether it's me, his father, or his grandparents, we won't allow anyone to ruin his reputation and affect his future."
Mother Ding said: "That's right, it's not easy for our poor family to have a promising descendant." This is not allowed to be ruined by anyone's child's future. That is the general, who honors the ancestors and changes the lintel.
Qin's mother smiled again: "Mum, A Fang is your grandson, he is promising, and you will rely on it more in the future. If the brothers and sisters in the family treat you badly, and the sister-in-law and sister-in-law are not filial to you, you will follow me. Say, it's a big deal, you follow us."
Mother Ding didn't know whether to laugh or cry: "Bah, bah, what nonsense are you talking about? How can there be an old woman with a son who has been with her daughter?"
Mother Qin said, "Don't you allow your daughter to be filial to her own mother?"
Mother Ding was happy when she heard it, but when she thought about it... she sighed heavily:
"Before, when Ah Fang was not yet developed, I thought about asking Si Ya to marry Tadpole, When my granddaughter married my grandson, I thought it would be good for Si Ya. When she married into our family, no one would bully her. Later, it was delayed, and now, Si Ya is now a lady of the official family, and she followed Her eldest brother and sister-in-law. Yanyan is a smart and knowledgeable girl, she must have taught Si Ya very well?"
She has seen her grandaughter-in-law, and she is really good.
She is beautiful and gentle, and people like it when they are in a room.
Speaking of this, Qin's mother's face was filled with joy: "No, Yan Yan has a lot of knowledge, and Si Ya is by our side, it is definitely better to follow Yan Yan. After a lot of words, Nvhong is also better than before, and she even bought me a gift with the pocket money her sister-in-law gave her, this child is really wasting money, where do I lack these things?"
Even so, the tone There is a slow pride. "In the final analysis, it's better to be A Fang's wife. Si Ya and Shoucheng are there, and they are always married to A Fang. A Fang is a man who doesn't care about his family. I don't know how hard it is to earn money these days. So ah, still A Fang's wife is generous.However, after we went to Yunxiang County, Siya and Shoucheng had to follow us. We went there to manage the fields of the military camp, and there were monthly records. It is enough to keep the business and save some money to marry a daughter-in-law, and to prepare more dowry for Si Ya in the future. "
Fifty taels of silver a year is indeed enough. In Xiaxiang Li, you don't need to spend five taels of silver to marry a daughter-in-law. But now that the family conditions are better, she doesn't want to treat her son or daughter badly. After the Chinese New Year, After receiving this year's salary, Da Ya's dowry has to be supplemented. If she can't give Si Ya's dowry, she will put aside the already married Da Ya.
Speaking of this, Qin's mother smiled again: "As a mother, I always hope that the children are well.When I married A Fang's father, mother, you were worried about this and that. At that time, I was young and ignorant., I always feel that your worries are superfluous. Now I am also a mother, and understand your intentions back then. Now, A Fang, I am relieved, there are four left to keep the business and keep the success, although they have The eldest brother who is directly related can be relied on, but in the end, he has to stand up, otherwise he can let Ah Fang and his wife support them for a lifetime? If this is the case, the eldest brother who kisses again will have conflicts."
After everyone gets married, they always care about with his own little home.
When MotherDing listened to Mother Qin's words, she was deeply moved. The girl's words are telling her inside and out that she wants the best for her children, whether it's a brother or a girl.
Grandma Qin is not a person who has no sense, nor is she a person who doesn't know what to do.
She knew that the tadpoles were not worthy of the four girls now, and also knew the temperament of the third daughter-in-law, how could her daughter marry her granddaughter to her parents' family.
But still a little disappointed. But she also knew that if she was reluctant, the family relationship would be broken today, not to mention that her daughter would break up with her mother's family, even with her mother-in-law. In the future, she and her wife will have an emergency, then...
But if she doesn't force it today, the family will still be there, and when her family needs her daughter's help in the future, she will not refuse.
Mother Ding didn't say anything. "You have to be careful when you go out. It's a long way to Yunxiang County, so you should prepare what you need on the way. You don't have to worry about things at home. Knowing that my eldest grandson is so promising, we are also at home. It will be fine."
This is the truth, their Ding family is the direct relative of the general.
Hearing what his mother said, Qin's mother's eyes were also red. Don't blame her for being selfish, even if her family wanted to borrow money, he was willing to do so, but it was absolutely impossible to gamble on the happiness of her children. She knew that today's words might hurt her grandmother, but what can be done?
Mother Qin said with red eyes: "Don't worry about me, we have A Fang's subordinates looking after us on the way, and A Fang and his wife are there when we arrive in Yunxiang County. According to A Fang's subordinates, A Fang's officials are the biggest there, and there is no one. On the contrary, I am more worried about you and Dad. We are so far from Yunxiang County. If you have an emergency, I will not be able to take care of you. Mom, you and Dad should take good care of you., you still have to enjoy Ah Fang's blessing. When I get there and stabilize, talk to Ah Fang and have an emergency, I will not be able to take care of you. Mom, you and Dad should take good care of you., you still have to enjoy Ah Fang's blessing. When I get there and stabilize, talk to Ah Fang and ask him to send someone to pick you up and Daddy to live there for a while."