Want to know the quickest way to live a miserable life? Live a life without Christ. I'll have you know that we are living in a fallen world. That means that just about everything that's supposed to be right is wrong. Brother, sister might as well give up on a relationship. It's hard enough for married couples to stay together. Nowadays people don't even want to get married (smh). If only this generation understood the pleasure of loyalty and a monogamy relationship. Well we can't because somebody is always messing something up. Speaking as a current single man who once had multiple relationships, I can say that I wasn't always in the right. No I'm not looking for a girl. It's pointless. Trying to find a Christian girl who is genuinely chasing God is like finding a needle in a haystack x2. It's damn near impossible. First of all when you peruse Christ, having a spouse is like having deserts after a full course meal. It's not needed but it's appreciated. And you certainly shouldn't be going to church trying to pick up girls or a girl. If you find yourself at church looking around for a shorty instead of praying, and singing/worshipping then you need to reconsider your walk with Christ. I've had excess amount of time in the bedroom with a few women and I'll tell you it's nothing compared to the peace in Christ. No kidding. It was honestly just another addiction. Something that feels good in the moment but does you no good in the future. Would you rather have a day to day conversation with a gen(z) woman or get to experience who God is? Well if you are a sinner you'll probably have hard time choosing. But, if you're like me who understands the unpredictability and boredom of a woman then it's so much easier to choose. Don't get me wrong women are great, but, and it's a big but, they are confused. Enough about them though. It's just the fact that a lot of men nowadays are perusing women not knowing that 1: we are living in a fallen world where barely anything will work properly without Christ, and 2: women aren't as interesting as they seem. I'm not Andrew Tate but truth is truth and that is that. So what is this generation of Christians supposed to do? First you must understand where we are in the Biblical timeline. And by my understanding where are at the end of times. That means getting a relationship and trying to build a family/legacy is risky. Just look at our world leaders and see what they are doing. If they are not clowning around they are waging war or pushing fishy agendas. Everyone is basically living hand to mouth unless you are rich asl. A 9-5 is like being a slave except you get paid and you don't get whipped. Trying to get any job above minimum wage requires you to do too much for too little. Might as well stick with the 9-5. Everyone so broke they acting fake, practically taking on a whole new identity just to get a few extra money(tik tok). A lot of people nowadays are changing their identity. Honestly if you don't hold onto your identity in Christ then best believe the world is quick to give you one. This world is fallen, and it fell from the very beginning of time, the minute men knew of good and evil.
