Cai Wei told her about the things she should do after marrying into the Xianbei Empire, such as promoting friendly development between Xianbei and the Great Jin Nation, advising Helan Qi to pay more attention to the suffering of the common people and to understand the people's livelihood. Of course, she also mentioned the cruel customs of the Xianbei Empire, but after all, those are long-standing traditions of a nation and an ethnic group. She did not expect Zhao Gui to have the ability to change them, merely bringing it up casually. If they could be changed, it would be for the best; if not, at least she tried.
Zhao Gui listened intently to every word Cai Wei said, and after hearing her out, she stood up and expressed her gratitude: "Thank you, Your Grace, for your teachings. Your words of wisdom are like treasures. I will remember them all and will do my utmost to act according to Your Grace's guidance, ensuring I do not bring disgrace to Your Grace's reputation."