Regarding the choice of 'eating grapes,' Zheng Qing first read about it in Qian Zhongshu's "Fortress Besieged": A plate of grapes, some good and some bad, would you choose to eat the good ones first, or the bad ones?
If you eat the good ones first, every grape you encounter afterward will get progressively worse; if you eat the bad ones first, every grape you encounter afterward will get progressively better. This is used to demonstrate the positive and negative attitudes in life.
But as he grew older and gained more experience, Zheng Qing gradually discovered that in this world, there are no absolute good or bad grapes. Most people's lives only differ by 'having grapes' or 'not having grapes.'
People without grapes will grab and eat them right away, regardless of whether they're good or bad.
