We went to meet up with our friends and tell them the news that we were together. Of course they know that we knew each other but this time we made an announcement officially. We were talking and one person said something and situation went haywire. They didn't react the way we thought...and that made the air around us filled with anger and rage. So we just went back home after the debacle had happened. I didn't notice that he was angry too; until he lashed out on me. We argued that day and took some time out for ourselves and spent it alone. Then when we calmed down, he came to me to talk and apologised for his mistake and said that he didn't like the fact that they were insensitive and that they didn't understand and that made him angry. We talked things out. We hugged each other and made up. Now that I think about it; most relationships don't last that long because there is always a lack of communication and understanding for the other person and that just leads to the two lashing out each and words that were never meant for them hit them hard; and hearts are broken... All this could've been solved if only a person is considerate enough to give their partner some space and the same goes the other way round as well. I can't speak for others but, that's my theory, that lack of communication, which is seemingly little in the beginning can make a beautiful realtionship into a toxic one. So from that day on I told him to share his feelings, whatever it maybe and just reach out to me and rely on me more. Just talking about a thing can clear up your mind like nothing else. So we've decided, whatever it is that is making either of us upset, we'll give each other some space and listen to them when they're ready to talk and comfort each other and say it's okay to cry out your pain and feel better.
~to be continued