Her family tragedy made her aware long ago that a marriage based solely on love is the most fragile. Even if her father loved her mother dearly, he also had other deeply cherished family members. Once the balance tips and isn't handled well, inevitably one side will suffer. Let alone issues like making mistakes and betrayal — she absolutely cannot accept those.
Moreover, she learned one thing from her parents' marriage: hesitation breeds chaos. Even if they still like each other, if they can't be together, then they can't be together. Forced happiness isn't happiness at all. Not only will neither parent be happy, but the child won't be either.
If Bo Yan were to stop loving her in the future, she would be upset, but she could accept it, as long as he could be honest and straightforward about it. What she hates the most is indecisive procrastination, which harms oneself and one's family.
